think about children who still aren't gifted with the gift of memory. they can play with someone with whom they had a nasty disagreement a few minutes earlier. that is how we all should be ... our inability to accept, forgive and let go of our bad memories have made us incapable of going back to our original state. oh well, you'll all find what i mean with time. for the meantime, keep up discovering your "undeveloped" self and find out the original wounds that keep you bound and incapable of growth. when you do, you'll find a way to accept, forgive and let go... and be a child once more!