Several years ago, I joined a group of high school students in an out-of-town immersion. I was not supposed to be there but the request coming from the department to assist its third year students who would undergo the summer immersion changed things. May 6, a red-letter day in the seminary, came and I was out of the community. I was in the height of the immersion. I got a text message from my brother assistant. I thought it was a 'happy feast day' greeting. But my world crumbled when I read the message "Donnie, you have chocolate in your drawer and it is filled with ants." I don't know what to say, but prudently, I recall texting him this message: "I'm sorry. I'll clean it once I returned. Happy feast day, brodz." I am a big fan of the Preventive System. In fact, I'm conscious of the practical things I know about it especially when I assist students. But it loses its value if those who enforce it--Salesians especially—seem to police. Of course, I committed a mistake in putting chocolates in my drawer; it was not supposed to be that way. But the SMS message communicated various messages to me except love. A presence of Salesian matters when it radiates the love of the Good Shepherd, and not of a police officer, who is keen to wait for people to commit mistake so that he could apprehend them. And when a Salesian becomes a living image of the Good Shepherd, he does not have to worry about the amount of love coming from the young. It will come. In a truckload.
Friday, March 20, 2009
Making ourselves loved
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Amen, Brother! I have had experiences like this... love makes such a difference...
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